Monday, September 8, 2008

Readers Galore


How many books have you read in the last year? Month?
Week?
I’m always curious what people are reading and how much they read. As a veracious reader, I can sometimes find it difficult to find good books that I can really sink my teeth into. I am a fast reader, most of the time and I tend to intimidate other readers that can’t read three books a week on average….but then they may have a life and I have reading! In Austin, I was a member of three different book clubs….all different styles and personalities. The Culture Club, chosen for the number of social, non-fiction or historical novels that we read. The Classics was a club that was determined to re-read all the books that they rejected as teenagers or young adults. And then there was The Ladies Club, a club of readers….plain and simple.
The Culture Club was a group of women from Austin. We had a lobbyist, an environmental engineer, lawyer and a social worker. I worked for a church then….they wouldn’t let me in if I had still been working for the car dealership. They were all socially, politically and biblically minded so the choices of our books leaned to anything that might be considered controversial in any other setting. I have to admit, and they all know this too, that I would have never chosen 75% of the books we read if choosing on my own. And yet, I loved the books we read…for the most part. I learned so much about myself… why I have the opinion that I do on certain subjects and where it came from in my own family and history. I’m not shy, but this group could be intimidating….and I was quiet and rarely spoke unless I was absolutely convinced of my position. I learned to listen…and now I seek out those books on my own.
The Classics Club were a group of friends that wanted to read more….and not Nora Roberts. They had shunned reading in school and since and were looking for a way to get back the lost knowledge and be able to win at trivial pursuit. We started with simple things, like The Scarlet Letter and The Outsiders. Both were books that we should have in our list, but for whatever reason many had not read them. In the beginning, we spent a lot of time catching those folks up that struggled to get one book read in a month and to help those others understand what they had read. It took some time but eventually this group was tackling Hamlet and other classics like Moby Dick. I was thrilled to rediscover these books and what was different this time than 25 years before. I also discovered that I just didn’t like some of them at all….classics or net.
My favorite book club, The Ladies Club was a great group of women from 25-65 years of age. You had to be a reader to keep up with this group. We would pick two to three books a month and our meetings would be 4 hour affairs full of everything from arguing to crying. The laughter was deafening and Benjamin used to arrange to be out of the house when they would come to my house for the meeting. “Why do you have to talk so loud about books?” We would meet, eat and drink some serious red wine and then discuss. The books were chosen to touch us in some way or another and we were fairly successful. This group was the “new release” group…it was hard to find books that we hadn’t read before or wanted to read again for the sake of discussion. We attempted some classical work…but no one really took it seriously. We wanted heart stories and that is where found each other…in the depths of friendship and holding on to a piece of each others heart. I miss these women. Though I know that the chemistry we had was unique, I crave that in my search for another Book Club.
Talk to me about what you are reading…and if you haven’t been reading I have a great list of books that you might like.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Transition and Transformation


I recently caught up with a friend that moved away from Austin several years ago and was shocked that her son, who I remember as being about 10 years old, was graduating from high school. I guess when I see my own children I am seeing the progression day to day and it has a limited shock effect….Benjamin is leaving today to do his study abroad in England and I can remember a not so distant past where I wouldn’t leave him alone in the house just to run to the store. Where has time flown?
I have been exploring life in transition recently and admittedly, I don’t think I move all that well from one life stage to the next. Change is necessary and unstoppable, but I always loose myself a little when I shift. I guess the past year has been that way…and most recently the move to East Texas. I love it here….but I am still working to find my way. And I think some of it is laziness. I have a great group of friends in Austin and thinking about finding friends like that here is frustrating. For the first time, in a very long time, all I have to think about is myself and the occasional family thing with Mom and the gang. What do I like to do now? Is it different than 20 years ago….or 10 or 5 even?
The next few months are going to be a exploration into many different things….outdoor, indoor, solitary, public, etc. I am going to make it my goal to explore the places in East Texas that talk to me, while I listen to my own heart and soul in a way that I have never listened before.
Transition and transformation…..the journey begins. Please use this blog to tell me about your own personal journey. And please pray for each step of the way!

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Texas and High School Football.....



I have been a fan of high school football for most of my life. I loved it growing up as a young child, then in high school its what we did for a social event. When my children were in school, (we lived in Westlake (Austin)) their school won the State Championship with Drew Brees (plays in the pros now) and were a powerhouse for many years and now finally cheering for the Lindale Eagles (my brother is the head coach and Athletic Director). There is something about the sounds…drum line and jumping jack grunting….the smells….hot dogs and nachos….that just gets everyone excited.
This past Friday was the first football game of the season and we won….big 50-21. The booster club in Lindale tries very hard to get the community excited about the season….we have BLUE OUT shirts (everyone wears blue…its pretty cool to see from the other side)…and a community tailgater with hamburgers, hotdogs, sausage and sodas. People all come together even if their business is direct competition with one another….all in support of the biggest thing happening in Lindale. If you go into just about any business on a Friday during football season including Walmart….they are wearing a BLUE OUT shirt. Lindale is a ghost town during the game and on away games is pretty sad, but traffic free!
It’s a shame in life we forget that we are all on the same team….and we can’t come together as a community of people and believers. If we can put away our differences for one night or even every Friday night….why can’t we do it for the other 6 during the week. God has been showing me the places where I have hardened my heart to others as just a matter of pride…..He asks me to play the game of life fairly and to always be aware of the others on my team…I am learning how to be a better player….and hopefully a better Mauri.
Here are pictures from the game Friday…..I hope that you each find a passion just like the state of Texas has high school football.